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1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
3. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
4. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
5. Slower is better.
6. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
7. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
8. Don't settle.
9. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
10. Don't stay because you think, "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

11. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
12. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
13. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
14 . Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
15 . You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.
16. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
17 . Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
18 . Never let a man define who you are.
19 . Never borrow someone else's man.
20 . If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
21 . A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
22. All men are NOT dogs.
23 . You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
24 . You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
25 . You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals....look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.
26 . Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. 
27 . Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him, he takes it for granted. 
28 . Never move into his mother's house.
29. Never co-sign for a man.  
30 . Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.